Female sex organs are same -Author, Ayanniyi writes in her new book

Ayanniyi

By ADA DIKE

In this part of the world where culture forbids one to mention the real names of male and female sex organs, an author, Miss Ololade Ayanniyi, has written a book which x-rays the need for men to see females’ sex organs as the same.

Titled: Vagina Homogeneity, the book which was unveiled last week in Lagos, summed that vagina is the same in every woman all over the world, irrespective of their height, race, size, shape and colour. Ayanniyi believed that it is not the woman that is giving a man the satisfaction he derives during sex but the man’s mind.

Presenting the book, the chief launcher of the occasion, Honourable Justice Ademola Bakre, on a lighter note said, he was in his room with his wife the night he received a message from the author and saw the soft copy of the book in his E-mail. He opened it and closed it immediately after he saw some pictures. “I told my wife that it wasn’t from me. When I got to the presentation venue and read some parts of the book, immediately I heard that my wife was on her way to the venue, I closed it. Though I have crazy friends, they will be shocked when they read the captivating book,” Bakre said.

Honourable Justice Ademola Bakre of Federal High Court, Ogun State (3rd left) his wife, Bukky Bakre (2nd left), Mrs. Osa Akpata-Idowu (1st left) the author of Vagina Homogeneity, Miss Ololade Ayanniyi (3rd right), a guest and Ms. Tinu Ayanniyi at the public presentation of a book - Vagina Homogeneity in Lagos last week

He added that the book makes the truth stare one in the face to the extent that one would have to start thinking deep.

He ignited the hall as everyone laughed when he argued that Ololade was wrong to portray women as being abused instead of men. “With all sense of responsibility, it takes a disciplined man to pass through the streets everyday and resist the temptation from ladies.”

In his review, Barr. Kayode Akomolafe, who was also the compere at the book presentation said the title of the book caught his attention and he hinted that one has to be a courageous person to write a book with this kind of title - Vagina Homogeneity.

“Even in marriages and seminars, the name ‘vagina’ is coded. You will hear ‘flight to Jerusalem’ because it is a reflection of the society. This has led to a lot of ills going on in the society and people cannot talk about it,” said Akomolafe.

He was of the opinion that the title of the book was a departure from the norm. “There is time for everything. The book is positively x-rated.”  

Ayanniyi, according to him, said that women’s sex organs are the same. “She said it in Yoruba, pidgin and English Languages and summarised that there is homogeneity in females’ sex organs. A woman is a woman, though they may have differences in skin colour but vagina is the same.

“It is scary at some points when she described its colours. She was bold and direct about it. Prepare yourself for some shocks if you want to read Vagina Homogeneity. The book is directed at men.”

The reviewer further said that Ololade, being an Economics graduate used business terminologies to write the book and they are –Homogeneity, Cost of Production Return on Investment, Commission on Turn Over and so on. In a Chapter she titled ‘Wanna be Syndrome,’ she suggested that one of the things that may push some men into sampling ‘the homogeneous property’ is because they want to be like other men, but the reviewer said he did not agree with the author.

In Chapter two, Kayode said Ayanniyi corrected the notion of variety is the spice of life and revealed that “No vagina is better than the other.” The reviewer added that sexual compatibility takes place in marriage over time.

“In Chapter Four, the supposed pleasure in sex is a mirage. Chapter Five – Opportunity Cost which means that when you have a chance to do something, the result can be good or bad. Her true self and the fact that she is a true Christian came out in this chapter. She admonished everyone to remember that they are made in the image of God. The Chapter she titled Superlative Magnetic Turnover refers to the consequences of sampling different women in bed. Reading it will get a wise man to think because what you sow is what you will reap,” he said.

Akomolafe described Ololade’s style of writing as artistic as she used poetry, dialogue, prose, fiction and so on, to arrest a reader’s interest.

“The language is plain and direct.” He warned that the book in its subject is not for the faint-hearted.

In her speech, the author of an award-winning book, Market Place Creed, Ololade, said she was inspired to write Vagina Homogeneity due to the news of what happened to a highly respected man after he was accused of sexual assault. One day, while she was lying down, a thought came to her mind, asking her: “If that man were your brother or husband, would you castigate him? “ 

Similarly, the scholar shared how she attended a seminar and one of the speakers, an American, said: “My wife is an entity and her vagina is an entity. I fight my wife and will not fight her vagina. It is mystery we cannot explain. Everybody’s personal life is related to their sex life.”

Ayanniyi also said that the man said they had been married for over 20 years but he has a girlfriend after he had an issue with his wife. “He added that they would be no adultery the day his brain stops working. He believed that the large compartment of brain has sex life.”

 “My utmost desire is for men to be free.  Abuse of vagina has destroyed destinies. It is going to help a lot of relationships if we learn to manage our sex life. There is a point I wrote that if you are in a legal relationship and keeps committing adultery, discuss it with your spouse so that you can stop doing it.

“Men are not weak, that is the way they were created. As women, we have to find a way to supplement what God has put in them.”

The entrepreneur who runs the En-hakkore Foundation, a non-governmental organisation and a support centre for women entrepreneurs which focuses on training, seminars, information dissemination and trade exhibitions warned that: “Do not be deceived, there is no vagina that is laden with diamond, neither is any laden with gold dust, or is there a silver-plated one; they are all homogeneous.”

She gave illustrations of the consequences of extra-marital activities, stressing that it attracts sickness, diseases, guilt, disgrace, murder and untimely death, among others, into one’s life.