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| Advisor: ADA DIKE |
She
gossips so much
I got married about five years ago and
we are blessed with two beautiful daughters. My problem is that since my wife
lost her job a year ago, my house has been a nagging centre for jobless women.
Each time I caution her, she will quarrel with me. Please advise me on what to
do before I throw her out of my house.
Olamide
It’s not easy to cope with a
nagging spouse but bear with her because her problem emanated from her present
predicament, that is, her loss of job.
The next action you should take is to get
her a new job or raise some money for her to start a business.
An
idle mind, as the saying goes, is the devil’s
workshop. If she’s engaged in a job, she would have less opportunity to
nag.
My wife is not happy with me
Dear Caring Heart,
I am an engineer by profession and I am
married with two children. Recently, my wife has been complaining that she is
not happy living with me despite all my efforts. What shall I do?
Dele
I wonder what is making her to feel that
way. You story is one-sided because your wife must have a reason why she is not
happy with you. Check yourself whether there is a habit she has been
complaining about which you couldn’t drop. Do you give her enough money for the
upkeep of the home? Are you someone that wakes up and rushes out to work and
come back late without having time to discuss with her or play with the kids?
Search yourself and amend your ways towards her. But if on the other
hand you are innocent of the above-mentioned issues, forget about whether or
not she is happy living with you since she cannot open to you.
Food For Thought
A man who makes trouble for others is also
making trouble for himself.
- Late Chinua Achebe
Nigerian, Writer. Born in 1930
Love Tone
Communication is the key to our happiness.
If you just talk about it, maybe, we can
make some sense.
I’m not the type of woman that you can play
for a fool.
You better get with me and just act like
it’s cool.
Can you tell me what’s going on in your
mind?
Is it affection you need, is it what you
want to find?
I can take you where you want to go,
Just stand by my side, and if you’re sure
of what you want,
You can’t be wasting my time.
-Monalisa’s stop wasting my time.
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