Heart-to-Heart with ADA DIKE

 

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She has a high Liibido
I met my wife in 2007 and we resisted pre-marital sex till we got married early this year. It has been a Herculean task for me to satisfy her sexually. She keeps complaining and craves for more even when I am tired and this issue has on many occasions caused misunderstanding between us. This problem of sex may destroy our marriage if care is not taken and I am beginning to suspect her of having extra-marital affairs since I can’t satisfy her. I am running out of patience because I cannot take it any longer but I believe that your advice will go a long way to save our marriage.
Benjamin

The havocs the issue of sex in marriage has caused cannot be over-emphasised but it takes wisdom for a couple to weather the storm.
There is nothing wrong with her high sexual urge so the move you made to find a lasting solution is commendable. It’s possible that she wants to explore the theory and practice of sex after many years of loneliness and abstinence hence her insatiable appetite for sex.
Science has made it possible for men with erectile dysfunction to be able to perform their bedroom marital duties. There are some drugs that are meant to increase a man’s libido so consult a medical doctor and explain to him that you just got married and needs to satisfy your wife on bed. He will prescribe some drugs for you.
Secondly, there is need for you and your wife to have foreplay to arouse each other before the real action. Touch her sensitive parts to enable her come earlier than before.
Read romantic books and practice it so that your wife will not only be satisfied but will beg you to leave her.
Thirdly, your wife’s crave for sex is normal. Your body is hers and vice versa so give it to her anytime she demands it. Suspicion can ruin a marriage please don’t suspect her of  having extra-marital affair.